Year: 2018

Dec - 18

Why I Do What I Do

Jessica theLIC
I love people, and I love to see them thrive.
I believe that everyone has their own personal gifts and strengths that are meant to be used and shared with the world.
One of my gifts is to see other’s strengths and help them realize their own potential. It excites me to see people get psyched to better themselves and come alive. 
Although I do love helping others, I’m not here to push anyone to do something they’re not ready for or tell people what they should be doing. I do not have an agenda when I work with clients other than to provide them with the best possible service I am capable of delivering. I am here to be a loving inspiration and support for those who are ready to be their best selves. I have lived life in the low 1s and 2s and am now experiencing living life in the 11+. If I can share my journey with anyone who’s interested in knowing me and add any value to their life, then that’s awesome. 
Increasing value is very important to me. I always set an intention before working with a client that our time together will serve for the higher good of both them and myself. I ask that our work together will help us vibrate higher because of what’s being done. I always want people to walk away from the work that we do to feeling passionate and more luxurious than ever before.
Coaching is meant to be supportive, inspirational and a means of discovery for oneself and the greater good. I believe that the client knows and understands themselves better than anyone else. Even if they aren’t in touch with what is best for them, they know it inside.
I’m here as a discovery guide on the journey to the best versions of themselves.
This message goes out to all of those ready to elevate. Where will coaching take you in this amazing life that lies ahead? 
Oct - 18

Harnessing Your Sexual Energy

I am often asked, “what does it mean to harness sexual energy?” I believe it is a way to utilize one of our greatest gifts as human beings for our greater good. We all know how primal and strong sexual urges can be. Think about what your sex drive is capable of and incredible situations it has gotten you into. I don’t know about you, but my sexual energy can be quite strong and powerful at times. 

Prior to learning how to harness this vital energy I hold inside, I would often let it build and build, then finally fizzle away via orgasm. I would do this so I could get my focus back on other aspects of my day. That passionate drive is intense and I sometimes saw it as a distraction and it would get in my way. I would purposely release it so I could move on from my inherent urges and get back to my daily to-do list. Once I was able to recognize that the strength of this sexual energy didn’t have to be a burden and I could use it to my advantage, it was a whole new world! After learning how to build this natural energy in a healthy (and very fun) way, I’ve taught myself how to embrace it at its peak instead of wasting and ridding myself of it. I’ve learned to love this force inside of me and invite it to work for me instead of against me. 
Sexual energy is born in our second chakra right below our belly button, our sacral chakra. Typically, sexual energy will start, build and climax all within the sacral chakra region. I encourage those who want to harness this life-giving energy to activate it and build it up in the sacral chakra but don’t let it slip away right there. Similar to stoking a fire, building this energy to a steady roar will be enjoyable and exciting. It is important to know and understand your own body in this process and let it steadily build without releasing it out in a traditional orgasm. Prior to giving into the habit of release, try shifting this energy upwards and feed it to the rest of your body. One technique for moving this sexual energy is to use your breath, muscular contractions, and rhythmic movements until you feel this charge move all around your body. This takes practice and coaching, but the results are phenomenal. Soon you’ll experience the abundance of orgasmic pleasure throughout your being that will invigorate you instead of depleting you. 
While coaching clients on this practice, I ask that they set a specific intention or goal ahead of time. It can be overwhelming to harness sexual energy and have no idea what to do with it once it’s harnessed. Albert Einstein set intentions when he harnessed his sexual energy and it changed the world. What will you do with this primal gift?
Sep - 18

Respecting Relationships

Discovering and staying aligned with my personal values is super important in all that I do. Through trial and error and tuning into my own energy responses, I’ve gained a deep knowing in what is essential to me and how I want to live my life. Experience has taught me that loving relationships and teamwork are important to me. I hold this concept of teamwork in high regards and have had amazing outcomes when I live in harmony with this value of mine. Dedicating parts of my day to alone time and introspection is also vital for me to thrive as my best self, but I see my great results when I share a common goal with others.
Whether I’m working with one person at a time or 100 people together, I do make it known that this work should be accomplished with the support of their own personal team. Requesting support from friends, family, a significant other or the universe will all work great. This is not a requirement when coaching with me, but I do strongly suggest that our work together is being made known to the important relationships in the client’s life and is not kept secret. 
Although intimacy coaching doesn’t necessarily mean “sexual”, topics that are often discussed in sessions are quite personal and sacred. If a client is in a romantic relationship at the time of coaching with me, I strongly urge them to inform and or involve their significant other in our work. Feel free to share my website or let them know they can personally contact me to understand the work better. Lifestyle Intimacy Coaching is super unique and unconventional at times. It is so important that the client can feel 100% comfortable with the work that we do together and walk away feeling positive and accomplished. Coaching isn’t optimal if subconscious thoughts are questioning whether or not their partners would be comfortable with what is happening. 
Relationship dynamics, rules and boundaries are all very different with every couple. It is not necessarily my business to know the details of my client’s relationship, but I do need to understand what is ok and what is off limits per their partnership’s collaborative boundaries. Knowing that our coaching works together is not being kept secret and the relationship is being respected at all times, allows me to do my job to the best of my abilities. Whether it’s through conversation, hands-on energy work or hypnosis and meditation, I often encourage client’s to get in touch with their arousal scale and be aware of their sexual energy. It is important for the client and myself to know how we can do this appropriately and with integrity. 
Prior to starting any coaching package, I provide a detailed description of this unique method to the client to review with their significant other. The critical step of establishing guidelines as a “team” with your partner and myself will open the door to amazing results from our sessions as well as communication and trust in the relationship. Making the choice to be in alignment with this value is a positive game changer in all aspects. Wouldn’t you love to take your intimacy to the next level?
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